Wednesday, June 29, 2011
ROMAN POLANSKI - A TRULY INTERNATIONAL FILMMAKER
Roman Polanski is a Polish – French film director producer, writer and actor. He is one of the very few filmmakers who has directed critically acclaimed films all over the world.
He was born in Paris to Polish Jew parents and is a survivor of the Holocaust. When World War 2 broke out, he was separated from his parents in the Krakow ghetto by the Nazi invaders. As a child, Polanski witnessed the ghettoization of Krakow Jews and subsequent deportation of the Jews to the concentration camps. The six year old Polanski managed to escape the Krakow concentration camp after witnessing the execution of an old woman by a ruthless Nazi officer. A Polish Roman Catholic farmer gave him shelter by hiding him in one of his outhouses and changed his name to Roman Wilk. He was often abused by the Roman Catholics. But, he never stopped fighting for his existence and usually remained in the Catholic Churches under many different aliases, learned to recite most of the prayers by heart. But he often failed to assimilate among the Catholic groups and one day he was disbanded by the community.
He suffered for many more years, slipping through the Krakow sewers with gangs of Jewish children to steal food for their families. This went on to become even darker when he was used to hide in several non-jew families for a fee, days in starvation and while being forced to play sadistic games by Nazi Officers, where he was made a target for their shooting practice. All these events occurred before age twelve. In 1945, when the war finally ended, with over 3 million Jews executed in cold blood, Polanski was re-united with his father and then moved back to Krakow.
In the meanwhile, he was involved in visual arts and was helped along the way by Polish filmmaker Andrzej Wajda, who encouraged him to take admission in the Lodz Film School. Eventually, it became apparent that Polanski had found his medium, the short films which me made there were critically lauded. Polanski described that he was obsessed not only with the movies, but also the aura surrounding them. More than anything, he was fascinated with the actual mechanics of the process.
In 1962, Polanski released his first feature-length film, Knife on the Water which was the first significant Polish film that didn’t have war as its theme. This film would become what is called a “Pure Polanski” work; a moody, ruminating, smothering piece of art which explored the dark side of the human psyche and the dilapidated underbelly that confutes human contact and relationships. It was almost all shot and set on the spatially controlled environment on a boat. The movie proved to be an international success, even garnering an Academy Award nomination for the best film in a foreign language the same year.
After having an international acclaim for his works, Polanski moved to England, to start working on what is popularly known as “The Apartment Trilogy”. He collaborated with Gerard Brach and stated writing original scripts for his upcoming
projects. He refused to be influenced by what was in vogue and was not attracted by the stylistic freedoms of the New Wave filmmakers. Instead he opted to introduce psychological thrillers with surrealistic influences on its sleeve. His name came up with great horror directors like Alfred Hitchcock and John Cocteau. His first film of the apartment trilogy was Repulsion (1965) starring Catherine Deneauve and Yvonne Furneaux. The plot centered around a young Belgian woman who comes to live in her sister’s apartment in London and eventually experiences delusional hallucinations. The audiences were dazzled by his hypnagogic storytelling capability and unconventional special effects. Polanski’s work, this time had marked the start of a new era in cinema history.
Shortly after the film’s success, Polanski directed a nihilistic tragicomedy, Cul-de-Sac, which was not as popular as his previous works. He then continued on to work on his next film, The Fearless Vampire Killers (1967). It focuses on a buffoonish professor and a clumsy assistant who travel through Transylvannia in
search of vampires. This was a parody of the vampire movies. This film is best known for its highly ironic and macabre ending and is considered a classic Polanski ending. It was even his first feature film to be photographed in color with the use of Panavision lens. It was declared as a success.
Polanski had then decided to move on to America on the request of Paramount Studios, to takeover the script of Rosemary’s Baby (1968), which was initially refused by Sir Alfred Hitchcock. This movie was the defined as the finest film made by Roman Polanski till 1968, thereby establishing his reputation as a major commercial filmmaker. The plot centers around a young housewife Rosemary (Mia Farrow) who thinks is impregnated by the devil. It was nominated for eleven Academy Awards that year, but managed to win only one award (Best supporting actress, Ruth Gordon). Rosemary’s Baby is the best horror film by Roman Polanski till date.
On January 20, 1968, Polanski fell in love and married actress Sharon Tate. A
terrible tragedy was to befall on Polanski’s life when on 9 August, 1969, his wife Sharon who was eight months pregnant with their first child was brutally murdered along with four other people by members of Charles Manson’s cult ‘The Family’. Emotionally devastated, Polanski gave away all his possessions and returned to Europe, broken hearted, where he made even more serious and violent movies like Macbeth (1971) and What (1973), until he finally landed on Chinatown (1974). Polanski refused to sway away from his styles of filmmaking and used wide angle lenses, bright lights and precise framing but the film was a wolf in sheep’s clothing; it was pure noir, launching a scathing attack on the American Dream. It was one of the most important films of the era, it was nominated for eleven Academy Awards. It won the Best Original Script (Robert Towne). It is still considered as one of the greatest films ever made.
Polanski again returned to work on the “Apartment trilogy”, to continue what he had
started a long way back. He came up with The Tenant (1976), which was not as acclaimed as its predecessor. Nevertheless, it became a cult hit and was a commercial success. Polanski was deeply moved by the death of his wife Sharon Tate and his grief was reflected in his movie Tess (1979). Initially, it was Tate who had suggested Polanski to read the story and thought that it might make a good film. This film not only emulate Polanski’s love for Tate, but nuances of his terrifying childhood were also witnessed. Tess was nominated for six Academy Awards, out of which it won in three categories (best art-direction, cinematography and costume design) and once again Polanski’s star remained undimmed. However, after Tess, Polanski disappeared from the film game for seven years and when he returned, made critical and commercial disasters time after time.
His bad filmmaking continued, until when he thought breaking his pact of not making a war movie. He came up with the idea of The Pianist (2002), a biographical war film, based on real life musician, Vladyslaw Szpilman. Szpilman’s experiences as a persecuted jew in Poland, during World War 2, were reminiscent of Polanski and his family. Polanski returned to the horrific ground and terrible memories of his childhood in Nazi occupied Poland during World War 2. It is in fact one of the greatest films made on World War 2, because of its explicit portrayal of the extermination of Jews and the ghettos. Eventually Pianist received worldwide critical acclaim and was nominated for seven Academy Awards, out of which it won in three categories; Best Actor (Adrien Brody), Best Adapted Screenplay (Ronald Harwood) and Best Director (Roman Polanski). It was the first Academy Award received by Roman Polanski, but was not able to attend the ceremony because of his extradition issues with America. After the announcement of the Best Director Award
, Polanski received a standing ovation from most people present on the venue.
After getting relief from making such an epic movie, he intended to direct a
children’s movie, Oliver Twist (2005). He said in an interview that he always wanted to make a children’s movie and that the life of the young scavenger mirrored his own childhood, fending for himself in Poland during WW2. Recently, he had directed a thriller named The Ghost Writer (2010) which is based on Robert Harris’s poular novel of the same name. The audiences applauded his work in this movie and some critics have exclaimed that it is the return of Roman Polanski.
Polanski has been a controversial character in his whole life. He has been married
thrice and twice divorced. He is also infamous for his sexual assault case of 13 year old Samantha Geimer during a photo shoot of the French Vogue magazine on 1977. He was ordered to undergo 90 days of psychiatric treatement at Chino State Prison. After his release from prison, Judge Laurence J. Rittenband was unsatisfied with his behavior and demanded more prison time. Upon knowing the changed plans of the
judge, Polanski fled to France who denied extradition to the American Government. Thus Polanski recides in the countries which donot extradite him to the US government.
Apart from his social issues, Roman Polanski is one of the great filmmakers that the world has ever witnessed. I love watching his films, especially his idiosyncratic storytelling capabilities and exceptional photography techniques.He is still regarded as "The Most Wanted And Desired Man in America".
Friday, June 10, 2011
MY TOP TEN BEST MOVIE SCENES OF ALL TIMES!!!!
1. SCHINDLER’S LIST (1993)
Starring – Ralph Fieness, Liam Neeson, Ben Kingsley.
Directed by – Steven Speilberg
Schindler’s list has been my personal favourite movie of all times because of a heartfelt, unsparing and fact – based epic of the nightmarish holocaust. This movie is a treasure of many gripping moments, but, the one that I’d specially like to recall is the climax scene when the war comes to an end and Oskar Schindler (Liam Neeson) is preparing to leave the country. Itzhak Stern (Ben Kingsley), Schindler’s long time accountant and business partner hands him the gold ring with an inscription of a Hebrew adage, “Whoever saves one life, saves the world entire”. Schindler breaks into tears and berates himself for not being able to save more lives. The amazing background score by John Williams was like the necessary condiment. Throughout the whole movie, we observe a businessman streak in Oskar Schindler, but in the end when he sees the faces of the jews he saved, he is ridden by guilt and remorse. This movie couldnot be made better and I think it is the magnum opus of director Steven Speilberg.
2. BRAVEHEART (1995)
Starring – Mel Gibson, Sophie Marceau, Angus Macfayden
Directed by – Mel Gibson
This epic historic drama based on legenday Sir William Wallace is a masterpiece. Actor, Director and Producer Mel Gibson has proved his talent by making such a movie. It’s a tale of love, betrayal and a strive for the freedom of Scotland from the cruel king of england, Edward the Longshanks (Patrick McGoohan). William Wallace’s speech to the fellow scottsmen during the Battle of Stirling is one of the most inspirational speeches I’ve ever heard.
“You've come to fight as free men, and free men you are. What will you do with that freedom? Will you fight?...Aye, fight and you may die. Run, and you'll live - at least awhile. And dying in your beds, many years from now, would you be willing to trade All the days, from this day to that, for one chance, just one chance, to come back here and tell our enemies that they may take our lives, but they'll never take OUR FREEDOM!”.
Even towards the end, when Wallace is captured by Longshanks and tortured by the english army, he courageously shouts “FREEDOM” as his last words. This scene will definitely bring tears to the eyes of the most cold-hearted human being. Wallace’s execution is witnessed by his oldest and best friend Hamish (Brendon Gleeson) and quasi – bodyguard Stephen (David O’Hara) and they close their eyes when they hear “FREEDOM” as the last words coming out of Wallace. Braveheart is unquestionably one of the greatest movies ever made.
3. LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL (1997)
Starring – Roberto benigni, Nicolette Braschi, Giorgio Cantarini
Directed by – Roberto Benigni
People usually refuse to watch foreign movies and I don’t know why! But, its sheer stupidity if you have missed a movie like Life Is Beautiful. It’s a complete entertainment package combined with the darker side of the Nazi concentration camp. Roberto Benigni is funny and charismatic actor who potrays a young Italian Jew. His romance with a local school teacher, Dora (Nicolette Braschi) is quite adorable as well as humorous, especially when Guido exclaims, “Buon giorno, Principessa”.
Yet, the most gripping scenes of the movie is the moment when Guido tries to imitate the guard taking him away, to protect his son from being spotted by the Nazi guards. The look of the little kid’s face while watching his father imitating the guard and letting out a suppressed laughter. Little did he knew about the sacrifice that his father made for him. I admire Roberto Benigni for his exceptional acting and direction and being able to narrate a very simple story with a dark façade.
4. AMERICAN BEAUTY (1999)
Starring – Kevin Spacey, Thora Birch, Annette Benning, Wes Bentley and Mena Suvari
Directed by – Sam Mendes
This movie is an absolute bliss to watch. American Beauty is a stunning masterpiece as well as a debut film by director Sam Mendes. Kevin Spacey has been one of the notable actors of the Hollywood after making some great movies like Se7en and The Usual Suspects. But, it is surprising that no one could have better played the role of a depressed middle aged man and his life in a stage of disorientation and transition. And the most notable thing about the movie is the magnificient background score which blends with the moments perfectly. Anyways, my favourite scene from the movie is the climax, where Lester takes a smiling look at the photograph of his family and a gun shot sounds with his blood spattered on the wall.
“I had always heard your entire life flashes in front of your eyes the second before you die. First of all, that one second isn't a second at all, it stretches on forever, like an ocean of time... For me, it was lying on my back at Boy Scout camp, watching falling stars... And yellow leaves, from the maple trees, that lined our street... Or my grandmother's hands, and the way her skin seemed like paper... And the first time I saw my cousin Tony's brand new Firebird... And Janie... And Janie... And... Carolyn. I guess I could be pretty pissed off about what happened to me... but it's hard to stay mad, when there's so much beauty in the world. Sometimes I feel like I'm seeing it all at once, and it's too much, my heart fills up like a balloon that's about to burst... And then I remember to relax, and stop trying to hold on to it, and then it flows through me like rain and I can't feel anything but gratitude for every single moment of my stupid little life... You have no idea what I'm talking about, I'm sure. But don't worry... you will someday.”
This very speech as well as the extremely shocking end has moved me more than any other. Seriously, you need a lot of guts to watch such a movie and to feel the story.
5. TITANIC (1997)
Starring – Leonardo DiCaprio, Kate Winslet, Kathy Bates.
Directed by – James Cameron
Lo and behold for the greatest epic romance and distaster movie ever made in the history of Hollywood! A budget of over $200 millions for the reconstruction of the spectacular RMS Titanic made it the highest grossing movie till Avatar. Since, every scene in this movie is phenomenal, I had a pretty hard time deciding my favorite scene. I loved everything in the movie, from the set to the music. The chemistry between Jack Dawson (Leonardo DiCaprio) and Rose Bukater (Kate Winslet) is simply mindblowing.
My favorite scene from the movie as I recollect is the heart-breaking moment when Jack encourages Rose not to give up while floating on a large piece of debris.
"Don't you do that, don't say your good-byes. Not yet, do you understand me?....Listen, Rose. You're gonna get out of here. You're gonna go on and you're gonna make lots of babies, and you're gonna watch 'em grow. You're gonna die an old... an old lady warm in her bed. Not here. Not this night. Not like this. Do you understand me?...Winning that ticket, Rose, was the best thing that ever happened to me. It brought me to you and I'm thankful for that, Rose. I'm thankful. You must, you must, you must do me this honor. You must promise me that you'll survive, that you won't give up, no matter what happens, no matter how hopeless. Promise me now, Rose, and never let go of that promise.”
Titanic is great because of the exceptional acting from both DiCaprio and Winslet. Even Celine Dion’s “My heart will go” is a classic. Another favorite scene is the final dream sequence in which the young Rose imagined herself meeting and kissing Jack at the top of the elegant grand staircase surrounded by an applauding audience of all those who died on the ship – toghether forever.
6. THE SHAWSHANK REDEMPTION (1994)
Starring – Tim Robbins, Morgan Freeman, Bob Gunton.
Directed by – Frank Darabont
This in an example of an impressive, engrossing piece of filmmaking from director/screewriter Frank Darabont who adapted from Stephen King’s “Rita Hayworth and Shawshank Redemption”. The inspirational, life-affirming and uplifting work of art is a combination of prison/dramatic film and character study.
“Fear can hold you a prisoner. Hope can set you free”. These are the words illustrated on the official poster that illustrate the liberating, redemptive power of hope and themes of freedom and resurrection.
The scene where Andy Dufresne boldly asks Captain Hadley to provide his co-workers with beer is the most gripping scene for me.
“And that's how it came to pass, that on the second-to-last day of the job, the convict crew that tarred the plate factory roof in the spring of '49 wound up sitting in a row at ten o'clock in the morning, drinking icy cold Bohemia-style beer, courtesy of the hardest screw that ever walked a turn at Shawshank State Prison...The colossal prick even managed to sound magnanimous. We sat and drank with the sun on our shoulders and felt like free men. Hell, we could have been tarring the roof of one of our own houses. We were the Lords of all Creation. As for Andy, he spent that break hunkered in the shade, a strange little smile on his face, watching us drink his beer...You could argue he'd done it to curry favor with the guards, or maybe make a few friends among us cons. Me? I think he did it just to feel normal again, if only for a short while.”
That was Red’s (Morgan Freeman) speech after Andy’s shocking decision to help the fellow guards in some legal paperwork for free.
Morgan Freeman and Tim Robbins are majestic in their performances. It still upsets me that this movie was nominated for seven academy awards, but failed to win none. It was overshadowed by Forrest Gump and Pulp Fiction, both commercially and critically. At least, Morgan Freeman should have received an Oscar!
7. INTO THE WILD (2007)
Starring – Emile Hirsch, Catherine Keener, Hal Holbrook.
Directed by – Sean Penn
A biopic of a free – spirited, idealistic, young college – grad adventurer named Christopher Johnson McCandless (a.k.a Alexander Supertramp), Into the Wild is a spellbinding examination of a young man’s journey across America, to Alaska, in search of happiness, after forsaking his estranged family and many friends.
I always valued Sean Penn’s acting talent, but his directon is breath-taking. Penn carefully stuck to his subject and gave the movie as much thought and power he could provide. No one could have been a better potrayal of Chris McCandless than Emile Hirsch.
The best moment in the movie is when an elderly leather worker Ron Franz (Hal Holbrook) proposes paternistically to adopt Chris which he ultimately refuses to accept.
“From the bits and pieces I've put together, you know, from what you told me about your family, your mother and your dad, and I know you've got your problems with the church too, but there's some kind of bigger thing we can all appreciate, and it sounds like you don't mind calling it God. But when you forgive, you love, and when you love, God's light shines on you”.
The above dialogue is said by Ron Kranz in this emotionally stunning scene. My other favorite scene includes the final dying scene, where Chris scribbles his last and final words in his journal, “HAPPINESS ONLY REAL WHEN SHARED”. The accoustic guitar solo by country singer Eddie Vedder is one of my personal favorite songs of all time. This movie is highly recommended for the ones who love adventure and have the ability to think differently.
8. THE DARK KNIGHT (2008)
Starring – Christian Bale, Heath Ledger, Aaron Eckhart, Maggie Gyllenhal
Directed by – Christopher Nolan
This is by far the best Batman movie ever made (The previous ones were so awful that it nearly made me puke!). Christopher Nolan strikes back with another promising work by directing The Dark Knight. The film centers around three characters; Batman (Christian Bale), Lieutenant James Gordon (Gary Oldman) and District Attorney Harvey Dent (Aaron Eckhart) challenge a mysterious and extremely ingenious criminal named The Joker (Heath Ledger). A deep personal struggle commences between Batman and Joker in which The Joker forces him “to confront everything he believes”. Darker than its prequel, it is one of the very rare sequels to have received a greater acclaim. Riveting dialogues and first – rate performance by late Heath Ledger has brought this movie in the history books.
The best scene is during the final confrontation between Joker and Batman, where he finally reveals that Batman is incorruptible, so he manipulated Gotham’s “white knight” and brought him down to their level.
The Joker: Oh, you. You just couldn't let me go, could you? This is what happens when an unstoppable force meets an immovable object. You are truly incorruptible, aren't you? Huh? You won't kill me out of some misplaced sense of self-righteousness. And I won't kill you because you're just too much fun. I think you and I are destined to do this forever.
You see, madness, as you know, is like gravity. All it takes is a little push!.
The background score by Hans Zimmer is a masterpiece. It is dark like the haunting and visionary setting of Gotham city. It is a fast paced, pulse – pounding action movie with splending special effects and a nail biting twist. In the end I’d like to say just one word that totally describes the movie….. “WOW!!!”.
9. 127 HOURS (2010)
Starring – James Franco, Clemese Poesy
Directed by – Danny Boyle
It is an incredibly true story of Aron Ralston, an American mountaineer who became trapped alone under a boulder in Blue John Canyon, Utah and finally cut his arm off after 127 gruelling hours of struggle. It is yet another masterpiece of director Danny Boyle and his best work after Trainspotting. James Franco’s potrayal of Aron Ralston is prodigious. From beginning to the end, this movie has energy, creativity and fun especially the desperate efforts displayed by Ralston in his highly frustrating position. There are many scenes, most of which are hallucinations of Ralston. But the best part is just before the climax scene, when Ralston becomes highly delusional and sees his unborn son through a premonition (which turned out to be true later on). The sensational timing of the song “If I rise” during Ralston’s premonition nailed it. A R Rehman shows his talent again by composing one of the background score of the year. My favorite dialogue from the movie is when Aron comments about the boulder under which his hand is trapped.
“You know, I've been thinking. Everything is... just comes together. It's me. I
chose this. I chose all this. This rock... this rock has been waiting for me my entire life. It's entire life, ever since it was a bit of meteorite a million, billion years ago. In space. It's been waiting, to come here. Right, right here. I've been moving towards it my entire life. The minute I was born, every breath that I've taken, every action has been leading me to this crack on the out surface.” – Aron Ralston.
10. UDAAN (2010)
Starring – Rajat Barmecha, Rohit Roy, Ram Kapoor, Aayan Boradia.
Directed by – Vikramaditya Motwane.
This magnum opus is the directorial debut of Vikramaditya Motwane and yet another dynamite by producer/screenwriter and my inspiration, Anurag Kashyap. It is a movie that gives you a hope to choose whatever you want to become and live a dream. This film has everything in it; a touching storyline, skillful performances by small screen actors, riveting dialogues and impressive direction. It’s a movie to be experienced rather than watching with a box of popcorns. Rajat Barmecha stars as Rohan who after being abandoned by an authoritarian father for eight years, returns back to Jamshedpur to find that he has a younger half-brother who he didn’t even know existed.
It is a highly inspiring movie. The protagonist, Rohan is not a weak character; instead aiming to become a successful poet, but constrained by his domineering father. Electrifying performances by Rajat Barmecha, who, I suppose, completely blended in Rohan’s character makes the movie one of the best Hindi movies of the decade.
My favorite scene from the movie is when Rohan punches his father hard in the face, finally able to release his deep – rooted frustrations, followed by the incredible running scene where Rohan is being chased by an infuriated Bhairav Singh (Ronit Roy) but unable to catch up with the rocket like speed of Rohan. This scene was the greatest moment in the movie and made me sprang to my feet! The background music during the chase and the smile on Rohan’s face by finally defeating his father in the chase and becoming free is mindblowing. I seriously recommend this movie to everyone. 10 out of 10!
To end with, I’d like to conclude that these movies are a personal favorite of my own and they deserve to be in the top ten. Feedbacks would certainly help. I hope you’ve enjoyed reading this article and wish that you’d help me make an ever better list!
Starring – Ralph Fieness, Liam Neeson, Ben Kingsley.
Directed by – Steven Speilberg
Schindler’s list has been my personal favourite movie of all times because of a heartfelt, unsparing and fact – based epic of the nightmarish holocaust. This movie is a treasure of many gripping moments, but, the one that I’d specially like to recall is the climax scene when the war comes to an end and Oskar Schindler (Liam Neeson) is preparing to leave the country. Itzhak Stern (Ben Kingsley), Schindler’s long time accountant and business partner hands him the gold ring with an inscription of a Hebrew adage, “Whoever saves one life, saves the world entire”. Schindler breaks into tears and berates himself for not being able to save more lives. The amazing background score by John Williams was like the necessary condiment. Throughout the whole movie, we observe a businessman streak in Oskar Schindler, but in the end when he sees the faces of the jews he saved, he is ridden by guilt and remorse. This movie couldnot be made better and I think it is the magnum opus of director Steven Speilberg.
2. BRAVEHEART (1995)
Starring – Mel Gibson, Sophie Marceau, Angus Macfayden
Directed by – Mel Gibson
This epic historic drama based on legenday Sir William Wallace is a masterpiece. Actor, Director and Producer Mel Gibson has proved his talent by making such a movie. It’s a tale of love, betrayal and a strive for the freedom of Scotland from the cruel king of england, Edward the Longshanks (Patrick McGoohan). William Wallace’s speech to the fellow scottsmen during the Battle of Stirling is one of the most inspirational speeches I’ve ever heard.
“You've come to fight as free men, and free men you are. What will you do with that freedom? Will you fight?...Aye, fight and you may die. Run, and you'll live - at least awhile. And dying in your beds, many years from now, would you be willing to trade All the days, from this day to that, for one chance, just one chance, to come back here and tell our enemies that they may take our lives, but they'll never take OUR FREEDOM!”.
Even towards the end, when Wallace is captured by Longshanks and tortured by the english army, he courageously shouts “FREEDOM” as his last words. This scene will definitely bring tears to the eyes of the most cold-hearted human being. Wallace’s execution is witnessed by his oldest and best friend Hamish (Brendon Gleeson) and quasi – bodyguard Stephen (David O’Hara) and they close their eyes when they hear “FREEDOM” as the last words coming out of Wallace. Braveheart is unquestionably one of the greatest movies ever made.
3. LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL (1997)
Starring – Roberto benigni, Nicolette Braschi, Giorgio Cantarini
Directed by – Roberto Benigni
People usually refuse to watch foreign movies and I don’t know why! But, its sheer stupidity if you have missed a movie like Life Is Beautiful. It’s a complete entertainment package combined with the darker side of the Nazi concentration camp. Roberto Benigni is funny and charismatic actor who potrays a young Italian Jew. His romance with a local school teacher, Dora (Nicolette Braschi) is quite adorable as well as humorous, especially when Guido exclaims, “Buon giorno, Principessa”.
Yet, the most gripping scenes of the movie is the moment when Guido tries to imitate the guard taking him away, to protect his son from being spotted by the Nazi guards. The look of the little kid’s face while watching his father imitating the guard and letting out a suppressed laughter. Little did he knew about the sacrifice that his father made for him. I admire Roberto Benigni for his exceptional acting and direction and being able to narrate a very simple story with a dark façade.
4. AMERICAN BEAUTY (1999)
Starring – Kevin Spacey, Thora Birch, Annette Benning, Wes Bentley and Mena Suvari
Directed by – Sam Mendes
This movie is an absolute bliss to watch. American Beauty is a stunning masterpiece as well as a debut film by director Sam Mendes. Kevin Spacey has been one of the notable actors of the Hollywood after making some great movies like Se7en and The Usual Suspects. But, it is surprising that no one could have better played the role of a depressed middle aged man and his life in a stage of disorientation and transition. And the most notable thing about the movie is the magnificient background score which blends with the moments perfectly. Anyways, my favourite scene from the movie is the climax, where Lester takes a smiling look at the photograph of his family and a gun shot sounds with his blood spattered on the wall.
“I had always heard your entire life flashes in front of your eyes the second before you die. First of all, that one second isn't a second at all, it stretches on forever, like an ocean of time... For me, it was lying on my back at Boy Scout camp, watching falling stars... And yellow leaves, from the maple trees, that lined our street... Or my grandmother's hands, and the way her skin seemed like paper... And the first time I saw my cousin Tony's brand new Firebird... And Janie... And Janie... And... Carolyn. I guess I could be pretty pissed off about what happened to me... but it's hard to stay mad, when there's so much beauty in the world. Sometimes I feel like I'm seeing it all at once, and it's too much, my heart fills up like a balloon that's about to burst... And then I remember to relax, and stop trying to hold on to it, and then it flows through me like rain and I can't feel anything but gratitude for every single moment of my stupid little life... You have no idea what I'm talking about, I'm sure. But don't worry... you will someday.”
This very speech as well as the extremely shocking end has moved me more than any other. Seriously, you need a lot of guts to watch such a movie and to feel the story.
5. TITANIC (1997)
Starring – Leonardo DiCaprio, Kate Winslet, Kathy Bates.
Directed by – James Cameron
Lo and behold for the greatest epic romance and distaster movie ever made in the history of Hollywood! A budget of over $200 millions for the reconstruction of the spectacular RMS Titanic made it the highest grossing movie till Avatar. Since, every scene in this movie is phenomenal, I had a pretty hard time deciding my favorite scene. I loved everything in the movie, from the set to the music. The chemistry between Jack Dawson (Leonardo DiCaprio) and Rose Bukater (Kate Winslet) is simply mindblowing.
My favorite scene from the movie as I recollect is the heart-breaking moment when Jack encourages Rose not to give up while floating on a large piece of debris.
"Don't you do that, don't say your good-byes. Not yet, do you understand me?....Listen, Rose. You're gonna get out of here. You're gonna go on and you're gonna make lots of babies, and you're gonna watch 'em grow. You're gonna die an old... an old lady warm in her bed. Not here. Not this night. Not like this. Do you understand me?...Winning that ticket, Rose, was the best thing that ever happened to me. It brought me to you and I'm thankful for that, Rose. I'm thankful. You must, you must, you must do me this honor. You must promise me that you'll survive, that you won't give up, no matter what happens, no matter how hopeless. Promise me now, Rose, and never let go of that promise.”
Titanic is great because of the exceptional acting from both DiCaprio and Winslet. Even Celine Dion’s “My heart will go” is a classic. Another favorite scene is the final dream sequence in which the young Rose imagined herself meeting and kissing Jack at the top of the elegant grand staircase surrounded by an applauding audience of all those who died on the ship – toghether forever.
6. THE SHAWSHANK REDEMPTION (1994)
Starring – Tim Robbins, Morgan Freeman, Bob Gunton.
Directed by – Frank Darabont
This in an example of an impressive, engrossing piece of filmmaking from director/screewriter Frank Darabont who adapted from Stephen King’s “Rita Hayworth and Shawshank Redemption”. The inspirational, life-affirming and uplifting work of art is a combination of prison/dramatic film and character study.
“Fear can hold you a prisoner. Hope can set you free”. These are the words illustrated on the official poster that illustrate the liberating, redemptive power of hope and themes of freedom and resurrection.
The scene where Andy Dufresne boldly asks Captain Hadley to provide his co-workers with beer is the most gripping scene for me.
“And that's how it came to pass, that on the second-to-last day of the job, the convict crew that tarred the plate factory roof in the spring of '49 wound up sitting in a row at ten o'clock in the morning, drinking icy cold Bohemia-style beer, courtesy of the hardest screw that ever walked a turn at Shawshank State Prison...The colossal prick even managed to sound magnanimous. We sat and drank with the sun on our shoulders and felt like free men. Hell, we could have been tarring the roof of one of our own houses. We were the Lords of all Creation. As for Andy, he spent that break hunkered in the shade, a strange little smile on his face, watching us drink his beer...You could argue he'd done it to curry favor with the guards, or maybe make a few friends among us cons. Me? I think he did it just to feel normal again, if only for a short while.”
That was Red’s (Morgan Freeman) speech after Andy’s shocking decision to help the fellow guards in some legal paperwork for free.
Morgan Freeman and Tim Robbins are majestic in their performances. It still upsets me that this movie was nominated for seven academy awards, but failed to win none. It was overshadowed by Forrest Gump and Pulp Fiction, both commercially and critically. At least, Morgan Freeman should have received an Oscar!
7. INTO THE WILD (2007)
Starring – Emile Hirsch, Catherine Keener, Hal Holbrook.
Directed by – Sean Penn
A biopic of a free – spirited, idealistic, young college – grad adventurer named Christopher Johnson McCandless (a.k.a Alexander Supertramp), Into the Wild is a spellbinding examination of a young man’s journey across America, to Alaska, in search of happiness, after forsaking his estranged family and many friends.
I always valued Sean Penn’s acting talent, but his directon is breath-taking. Penn carefully stuck to his subject and gave the movie as much thought and power he could provide. No one could have been a better potrayal of Chris McCandless than Emile Hirsch.
The best moment in the movie is when an elderly leather worker Ron Franz (Hal Holbrook) proposes paternistically to adopt Chris which he ultimately refuses to accept.
“From the bits and pieces I've put together, you know, from what you told me about your family, your mother and your dad, and I know you've got your problems with the church too, but there's some kind of bigger thing we can all appreciate, and it sounds like you don't mind calling it God. But when you forgive, you love, and when you love, God's light shines on you”.
The above dialogue is said by Ron Kranz in this emotionally stunning scene. My other favorite scene includes the final dying scene, where Chris scribbles his last and final words in his journal, “HAPPINESS ONLY REAL WHEN SHARED”. The accoustic guitar solo by country singer Eddie Vedder is one of my personal favorite songs of all time. This movie is highly recommended for the ones who love adventure and have the ability to think differently.
8. THE DARK KNIGHT (2008)
Starring – Christian Bale, Heath Ledger, Aaron Eckhart, Maggie Gyllenhal
Directed by – Christopher Nolan
This is by far the best Batman movie ever made (The previous ones were so awful that it nearly made me puke!). Christopher Nolan strikes back with another promising work by directing The Dark Knight. The film centers around three characters; Batman (Christian Bale), Lieutenant James Gordon (Gary Oldman) and District Attorney Harvey Dent (Aaron Eckhart) challenge a mysterious and extremely ingenious criminal named The Joker (Heath Ledger). A deep personal struggle commences between Batman and Joker in which The Joker forces him “to confront everything he believes”. Darker than its prequel, it is one of the very rare sequels to have received a greater acclaim. Riveting dialogues and first – rate performance by late Heath Ledger has brought this movie in the history books.
The best scene is during the final confrontation between Joker and Batman, where he finally reveals that Batman is incorruptible, so he manipulated Gotham’s “white knight” and brought him down to their level.
The Joker: Oh, you. You just couldn't let me go, could you? This is what happens when an unstoppable force meets an immovable object. You are truly incorruptible, aren't you? Huh? You won't kill me out of some misplaced sense of self-righteousness. And I won't kill you because you're just too much fun. I think you and I are destined to do this forever.
You see, madness, as you know, is like gravity. All it takes is a little push!.
The background score by Hans Zimmer is a masterpiece. It is dark like the haunting and visionary setting of Gotham city. It is a fast paced, pulse – pounding action movie with splending special effects and a nail biting twist. In the end I’d like to say just one word that totally describes the movie….. “WOW!!!”.
9. 127 HOURS (2010)
Starring – James Franco, Clemese Poesy
Directed by – Danny Boyle
It is an incredibly true story of Aron Ralston, an American mountaineer who became trapped alone under a boulder in Blue John Canyon, Utah and finally cut his arm off after 127 gruelling hours of struggle. It is yet another masterpiece of director Danny Boyle and his best work after Trainspotting. James Franco’s potrayal of Aron Ralston is prodigious. From beginning to the end, this movie has energy, creativity and fun especially the desperate efforts displayed by Ralston in his highly frustrating position. There are many scenes, most of which are hallucinations of Ralston. But the best part is just before the climax scene, when Ralston becomes highly delusional and sees his unborn son through a premonition (which turned out to be true later on). The sensational timing of the song “If I rise” during Ralston’s premonition nailed it. A R Rehman shows his talent again by composing one of the background score of the year. My favorite dialogue from the movie is when Aron comments about the boulder under which his hand is trapped.
“You know, I've been thinking. Everything is... just comes together. It's me. I
chose this. I chose all this. This rock... this rock has been waiting for me my entire life. It's entire life, ever since it was a bit of meteorite a million, billion years ago. In space. It's been waiting, to come here. Right, right here. I've been moving towards it my entire life. The minute I was born, every breath that I've taken, every action has been leading me to this crack on the out surface.” – Aron Ralston.
10. UDAAN (2010)
Starring – Rajat Barmecha, Rohit Roy, Ram Kapoor, Aayan Boradia.
Directed by – Vikramaditya Motwane.
This magnum opus is the directorial debut of Vikramaditya Motwane and yet another dynamite by producer/screenwriter and my inspiration, Anurag Kashyap. It is a movie that gives you a hope to choose whatever you want to become and live a dream. This film has everything in it; a touching storyline, skillful performances by small screen actors, riveting dialogues and impressive direction. It’s a movie to be experienced rather than watching with a box of popcorns. Rajat Barmecha stars as Rohan who after being abandoned by an authoritarian father for eight years, returns back to Jamshedpur to find that he has a younger half-brother who he didn’t even know existed.
It is a highly inspiring movie. The protagonist, Rohan is not a weak character; instead aiming to become a successful poet, but constrained by his domineering father. Electrifying performances by Rajat Barmecha, who, I suppose, completely blended in Rohan’s character makes the movie one of the best Hindi movies of the decade.
My favorite scene from the movie is when Rohan punches his father hard in the face, finally able to release his deep – rooted frustrations, followed by the incredible running scene where Rohan is being chased by an infuriated Bhairav Singh (Ronit Roy) but unable to catch up with the rocket like speed of Rohan. This scene was the greatest moment in the movie and made me sprang to my feet! The background music during the chase and the smile on Rohan’s face by finally defeating his father in the chase and becoming free is mindblowing. I seriously recommend this movie to everyone. 10 out of 10!
To end with, I’d like to conclude that these movies are a personal favorite of my own and they deserve to be in the top ten. Feedbacks would certainly help. I hope you’ve enjoyed reading this article and wish that you’d help me make an ever better list!
Saturday, June 4, 2011
DEFINING LOVE…. PART ONE
I have heard people say that love is not a petty, simple feeling… rather it’s a judgment, a promise, to whomever you give it to. If it were just a feeling, then there would be no sense of promising to love each other forever, because a feeling is intermittent; it comes and goes without a specific mention of time and setting. The emotion called love is regardless of whom you are feeling for; you just want them to be happy, you love the way they are, appreciate some of their aspect(s) and spend most of your time with the individual. Now, the question that arises is, “If love is same, then why are there so many different definitions about love?”
Well, I might have a possible answer for the universal question. The distinctions in the loving experience are observed in the manner of expressing our love. The emotions remain unchanged, but how we express it and the degree to which we express the emotions is what matters. When and how we express love is a matter of preference. You might prefer to spend more time with someone who is outgoing rather than an introvert, or more serious than silly. You may be physically attracted to an older woman than a younger girl. There are an infinite number of qualities that we might prefer over others. And these preferred qualities essentially detetmine who, when, how and to what degree we express our love.
I would like to present a very interesting theory proposed by famous American psychologist Robert Sternberg called “Triangular Theory of Love”. The theory categorizes love as consisting of three different components, viz,
- INTIMACY , a feeling of closeness that occurs between two people, including disclosure of personal feelings and thoughts.
- PASSION , a drive that cultivates romance and physical attraction.
- COMMITMENT , characterized by a decision to maintain love relationship with the partner for a long time.
From these three elements of love, he derived a total of eight types of love.
1. NON LOVE – It is the absence of all three elements, viz, passion, intimacy and commitment
2. LIKING/FRIENDSHIP – It is only intimacy without passion or commitment. This type of relationship is not trivial as it seems. Intimate closeness leads to true friendships in which a person feels bonded to another person without the commitment factor.
3. ROMANTIC LOVE – It is the combination of intimacy and passion, but, it excludes the commitment factor. These kind of relationships are non-existent in the long term.
4. INFATUATION – It is a relationship of pure passion, completely excluding the intimacy and commitment. It is the foundation of romantic love. But, without, any of the other two elements, it’s a perishable relationship.
5. EMPTY LOVE – It is sheer commitment without passion and intimacy involved. Generally observed in arranged marriages, where the spouses’ relationship usually begin with empty love. Even a very strong love can detoriate to empty love.
6. COMPANIONATE LOVE – It is an intimate and a non-passionate kind of love that is stronger than friendship because it involves long term commitment. This type of love is often found in marriages, where passion takes holiday from the relationship, yet it is held strong by deep affection followed by a firm commitment. Another example of companionate love is the love between two very close friends, also known as “platonic love”.
7. FATUOUS LOVE – It’s another unique kind of love which combines the elements of passion and commitment leaving intimacy behind. It can be cited by an impulsive love affair in which a commitment is backed largely by passion, without stabilizing the influence of intimacy.
8. CONSUMMATE LOVE – It is the best and ideal r elationship which combines all the three elements. It is the complete form of love towards which everyone thrive. Spouses exhibiting consummate love are often called, “perfect couples”. According to Sternberg, these couples have great passion among themselves and cannot be happy without each other. It is harder to maintain a consummate love than by merely achieving it.
So, which kind of relationship are you having? Or, at least, making plans about it? C’mon, don’t be so shy… share share share…
I had a great deal of fun writing this article, because, it gives a new perspective of studying about love especially in an analytical way. It’s really interesting to study about love because no one has been able to define love completely, not even in a set of paragraphs. Even I can’t give you an exact meaning, and even if I asked you, you would surely give an incalculable number of ideas, which, if summed up, still can’t give the definition of “LOVE”.
Well, I might have a possible answer for the universal question. The distinctions in the loving experience are observed in the manner of expressing our love. The emotions remain unchanged, but how we express it and the degree to which we express the emotions is what matters. When and how we express love is a matter of preference. You might prefer to spend more time with someone who is outgoing rather than an introvert, or more serious than silly. You may be physically attracted to an older woman than a younger girl. There are an infinite number of qualities that we might prefer over others. And these preferred qualities essentially detetmine who, when, how and to what degree we express our love.
I would like to present a very interesting theory proposed by famous American psychologist Robert Sternberg called “Triangular Theory of Love”. The theory categorizes love as consisting of three different components, viz,
- INTIMACY , a feeling of closeness that occurs between two people, including disclosure of personal feelings and thoughts.
- PASSION , a drive that cultivates romance and physical attraction.
- COMMITMENT , characterized by a decision to maintain love relationship with the partner for a long time.
From these three elements of love, he derived a total of eight types of love.
1. NON LOVE – It is the absence of all three elements, viz, passion, intimacy and commitment
2. LIKING/FRIENDSHIP – It is only intimacy without passion or commitment. This type of relationship is not trivial as it seems. Intimate closeness leads to true friendships in which a person feels bonded to another person without the commitment factor.
3. ROMANTIC LOVE – It is the combination of intimacy and passion, but, it excludes the commitment factor. These kind of relationships are non-existent in the long term.
4. INFATUATION – It is a relationship of pure passion, completely excluding the intimacy and commitment. It is the foundation of romantic love. But, without, any of the other two elements, it’s a perishable relationship.
5. EMPTY LOVE – It is sheer commitment without passion and intimacy involved. Generally observed in arranged marriages, where the spouses’ relationship usually begin with empty love. Even a very strong love can detoriate to empty love.
6. COMPANIONATE LOVE – It is an intimate and a non-passionate kind of love that is stronger than friendship because it involves long term commitment. This type of love is often found in marriages, where passion takes holiday from the relationship, yet it is held strong by deep affection followed by a firm commitment. Another example of companionate love is the love between two very close friends, also known as “platonic love”.
7. FATUOUS LOVE – It’s another unique kind of love which combines the elements of passion and commitment leaving intimacy behind. It can be cited by an impulsive love affair in which a commitment is backed largely by passion, without stabilizing the influence of intimacy.
8. CONSUMMATE LOVE – It is the best and ideal r elationship which combines all the three elements. It is the complete form of love towards which everyone thrive. Spouses exhibiting consummate love are often called, “perfect couples”. According to Sternberg, these couples have great passion among themselves and cannot be happy without each other. It is harder to maintain a consummate love than by merely achieving it.
So, which kind of relationship are you having? Or, at least, making plans about it? C’mon, don’t be so shy… share share share…
I had a great deal of fun writing this article, because, it gives a new perspective of studying about love especially in an analytical way. It’s really interesting to study about love because no one has been able to define love completely, not even in a set of paragraphs. Even I can’t give you an exact meaning, and even if I asked you, you would surely give an incalculable number of ideas, which, if summed up, still can’t give the definition of “LOVE”.
Wednesday, June 1, 2011
FALLING IN LOVE…. IS BEAUTY A NECESSARY BENCHMARK?
We have often heard the catchphrase, “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder”. Yet, everyone seems to interpret this cliché rather differently. The fact that someone or something is beautiful is only true when there is a critic to call it that. No artwork exemplified beauty without an onlooker, no song bought forward a melody without a listener, no poem created serenity or wrath without a reader. But, a person is not like a poem, painting or a song. He/She is capable of emotion and happiness. Whenever, someone spots an attractive opposite sex, their physical attributes become the subject of criticism and judgement. But, what is the purpose of making such judgements about someone? The answer is simple; it is for the purpose of mating and procreation. Thus, whenever an attractive woman or a man is standing in front of you, your mind subconsciously judges the beauty. And this deep rooted infatuation ultimately leads us to the delusion called “love”.
The most important question that we should ask ourselves is, “What is love”. I believe, it is the absence of hate. But, unfortunately, that’s not the way we see it. Apart from the existing emotions of love and hate, we subconsciously have a new emotion – indifference. We limit our love to our parents, friends and all those who help us in our lives. We hate the ones who are against us. But what do we feel when we meet strangers? We certainly don’t feel love. Instead we feel the indifference, that limits our vision only to judge the person’s outer shell rather than having an insight into the core of the person. Our mind readily sympathizes with the stranger, but, doesn’t reflect empathy. In true love, one can totally empathize and feel the pain of other person in real, just like how a mother doesn’t sympathize with her child’s hunger but empathizes with it. But can we ever be in such a high state of mind sharing love for everything around us?
The answer to the above question still remains in the shadows of our thoughts. My assertion is that human mind is egoistic in nature. The moment we say hello to a stranger, our mind subconsciously takes sides. It differentiates and discriminates without your consent. Discrimination is like a PH test. If stranger has appealing looks, the results are positive and vice-versa. It is because we never fully open the doors of our heart so easily to an acquaintance simply because we think of him/her as a stranger who means nothing in our lives. Thus, we get attracted sexually. Most people think that sex is the most valued thing in a relationship and it is the benchmark of deeply connecting with someone. I partly agree with the ideology, but, they shouldn’t confuse infatuation with love. Being in love is the most mature and realistic thing you do in your life. It energizes your life, fills you with positivity and creates magnanimity which makes every moment beautiful. The body heals and the heart is happy. This feeling can be achieved when we emotionally connect with someone, regardless of his/her beauty. We need to be willing to allow ourselves to look for and find that which is beautiful and worthwhile in everyone, including ourselves. And somehow let them know that falling in love doesnot mean entering into a world of illusion and fantasy. It means waking up from our darkened dreams to finally see the beauty which surrounds us.
There’s one fact, I would like to share. An individual cannot feel any emotions by just admiring one’s appearance. He cannot make love to a personality. As much as the idea is desired, physical affection cannot be given to a thought, an idea or a character. It is necessary that a body is present. Admiration of an individual is never so heart warming as when there is a face for that individual, by which emotions and ideas can be expressed. Moreover, one needs to explore the analytical expression of a deep thought in a person’s mind, which allows us a greater admiration of the deep thought itself. Nothing can express sadness greater than a story that one wishes to tell accompanied with tears.
I suppose that beauty has an important role in laying the foundation of an emotional connection. Whether we find one’s look to be beautiful or not, the existence of such a beauty is what matters the most. For example, if someone finds someone unattractive or ugly, but, the body exhibits a personality, an opinion, an ideal, a character, these things alone makes it enough to find the body attractive. The same can be said of a body we initially find attractive, but when we hear a rather thoughtless mind speaking, it eventually becomes unattractive for us.
To end this dissertation, I would like to vindicate that in order to fall in love with someone one should definitely root out the feelings of hatred and indifference right from the bottom of our heart. For love be the beauty that defines us and one can observe the astuteness of this beauty not when he’s on the seeker’s end of love, but when he’s on the giver’s end.
With this, I conclude. I can only hope that I have enlightened some minds.
The most important question that we should ask ourselves is, “What is love”. I believe, it is the absence of hate. But, unfortunately, that’s not the way we see it. Apart from the existing emotions of love and hate, we subconsciously have a new emotion – indifference. We limit our love to our parents, friends and all those who help us in our lives. We hate the ones who are against us. But what do we feel when we meet strangers? We certainly don’t feel love. Instead we feel the indifference, that limits our vision only to judge the person’s outer shell rather than having an insight into the core of the person. Our mind readily sympathizes with the stranger, but, doesn’t reflect empathy. In true love, one can totally empathize and feel the pain of other person in real, just like how a mother doesn’t sympathize with her child’s hunger but empathizes with it. But can we ever be in such a high state of mind sharing love for everything around us?
The answer to the above question still remains in the shadows of our thoughts. My assertion is that human mind is egoistic in nature. The moment we say hello to a stranger, our mind subconsciously takes sides. It differentiates and discriminates without your consent. Discrimination is like a PH test. If stranger has appealing looks, the results are positive and vice-versa. It is because we never fully open the doors of our heart so easily to an acquaintance simply because we think of him/her as a stranger who means nothing in our lives. Thus, we get attracted sexually. Most people think that sex is the most valued thing in a relationship and it is the benchmark of deeply connecting with someone. I partly agree with the ideology, but, they shouldn’t confuse infatuation with love. Being in love is the most mature and realistic thing you do in your life. It energizes your life, fills you with positivity and creates magnanimity which makes every moment beautiful. The body heals and the heart is happy. This feeling can be achieved when we emotionally connect with someone, regardless of his/her beauty. We need to be willing to allow ourselves to look for and find that which is beautiful and worthwhile in everyone, including ourselves. And somehow let them know that falling in love doesnot mean entering into a world of illusion and fantasy. It means waking up from our darkened dreams to finally see the beauty which surrounds us.
There’s one fact, I would like to share. An individual cannot feel any emotions by just admiring one’s appearance. He cannot make love to a personality. As much as the idea is desired, physical affection cannot be given to a thought, an idea or a character. It is necessary that a body is present. Admiration of an individual is never so heart warming as when there is a face for that individual, by which emotions and ideas can be expressed. Moreover, one needs to explore the analytical expression of a deep thought in a person’s mind, which allows us a greater admiration of the deep thought itself. Nothing can express sadness greater than a story that one wishes to tell accompanied with tears.
I suppose that beauty has an important role in laying the foundation of an emotional connection. Whether we find one’s look to be beautiful or not, the existence of such a beauty is what matters the most. For example, if someone finds someone unattractive or ugly, but, the body exhibits a personality, an opinion, an ideal, a character, these things alone makes it enough to find the body attractive. The same can be said of a body we initially find attractive, but when we hear a rather thoughtless mind speaking, it eventually becomes unattractive for us.
To end this dissertation, I would like to vindicate that in order to fall in love with someone one should definitely root out the feelings of hatred and indifference right from the bottom of our heart. For love be the beauty that defines us and one can observe the astuteness of this beauty not when he’s on the seeker’s end of love, but when he’s on the giver’s end.
With this, I conclude. I can only hope that I have enlightened some minds.
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